Man hugging if your both male.

[Posts: 1194Joined: 08 Jun 2002, 16:58Location: Arra. (Harrow if your posh)]

Now I for one hate anything to do with male poofs. (lesbainians are alright for a while). But I dont see anything wrong with two blokes, who, lets say have had a good days racing followed by a couple of pints and a bit of old fashioned p1ss taking, saying goodbye and giving each other a hug.

It happened within my group of pals on Friday. Had breakfast at The Seven Balls, onto Haste Hill for 18 of your lovely holes of golf, back to The "7" for a buffet, first pint of his finest Green King I.P.A. free and then many more to follow. At approximatly 1am'ish, I said goodbuy to the chaps who were left, and was greeted by many "man hugs". No tounges, just  hugs.

Male bonding ? or am I a bit gayish ?

Your thoughts please.

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[Posts: 3339Joined: 19 Jan 2004, 11:50Location: Hope Valley, Derbyshire]

Nothing wrong with man hugging, or with not man hugging for that matter.

Plenty wrong with someone saying "I for one hate anything to do with male poofs..." on a chat room and thinking it's either fair comment or "a bit of a laugh".

IMO.

(Edited by Prufrock at 10:38 pm on June 20, 2005)

[Posts: 2684Joined: 05 Nov 2002, 15:47]

I think this is an important question.

My own sexuality is hanging on by a thread and witnessing any behaviour which involves non-violent male body contact is a threat to me.

Just last week I was subjected to TV images of two males (Rishi Persad and Olivier Peslier) exchanging kisses and I felt myself beginning to turn.

I've written to the DG of the BBC about this, but in these days of political correctness and so-called "tolerance", I doubt that he'll see reason.  

Stephanie

[Posts: 4754Joined: 07 Oct 2002, 11:50Location: Scotland]

Hey .. !! Did anyone see that film last night .. 'Up-hill gardeners say NO ?'

[Posts: 1194Joined: 08 Jun 2002, 16:58Location: Arra. (Harrow if your posh)]

Nice frock's Non Vintage. We now know what side of the fence you sit on. Or, sorry, you might find it painfull to, er, sit right now. Sorry.:o

Ian. i cant answer you'ur post because i dont no wot verboten is. But I get your jist. Or is it gist ?

Prufrock.

Sorry to say, but I do find it wrong that a man wants to take it up the wrong-un by another man. Call me old fashioned, but thats my opinion. I dont like the thought of it. Sorry.

As per normal, nobody has taken me serious.

Anyone

[Posts: 4754Joined: 07 Oct 2002, 11:50Location: Scotland]

Seriously, definitely wrong unless you live in Harrow.

In Harrow you can get a grant from the Council if you grow a village people moustache, they give you cash towards the cost of maintaining of it. I know a bloke who's got one but he's not gay. And yet I know another bloke who hasn't got one and he is gay .. not literally, he's as miserable as everyone else but he lives with another bloke. The other bloke is a right blue-nose, he's from Kilwinning .. which should explain all to everyone who knows it.

So, LM .. did you see that film the other night .. ??

[Posts: 1020Joined: 03 Dec 2003, 15:41]

The only time a man should hug another man is in times of bereaved grief, or racing/football related extacy (cant spell xtc).

The scenes down the pub when Motivator romped home were a million miles away from homo anything, and yet the hugs were free flowing.<br>Same occurs when Ireland score v important goal. I was going to add Villa in to that. But I would have  no one to hug if Villa did ever score an important goal.

[Posts: 10789Joined: 10 Feb 2003, 15:43Location: Scotland]

xtc - now there WAS a band and a half.

[Posts: 1194Joined: 08 Jun 2002, 16:58Location: Arra. (Harrow if your posh)]

Generals and majors Ehh cormack.

Bet they were straight.

Mr Jay.

Sorry, but I missed that one. Was it about poofs?<br> By the way. The bloke you mention is a good friend of mine, and is definatly not a shirt liffter. (He just helps them out when there busy).

Thought Non'S reply was a bit NON.

Learnt something today thanks to HRH Davis.

Verbotem, its German. means Forbidden. cheers mate.;)

[Posts: 1194Joined: 08 Jun 2002, 16:58Location: Arra. (Harrow if your posh)]

Its lollys mate !

And good for you.

[Posts: 6431Joined: 24 Dec 2001, 12:11Location: Cheltenham]

Am I the only one amused by Lolly's Mate on a regular basis, while not necessarily sharing his world view on "shirtlifting" (isn't the plural [i]pooves[/i]? It sounds so right, to misquote Happy Days, that it can't be wrong).

Here's a conundrum ~ shouldn't we treat gay people, straight people who find gay people intolerable, and straight people who find other straight people who find gay people intolerable intolerable, the same? I think we should. It seems straightforward, or gayforward, or possibly even bi-curiousforward.

Hug, anyone?

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Never ceases to amaze me the number of people who enjoy voicing their opinions on gay culture, gay sex, what they  do or do not do, and what they think of it, when they have no experience of it, and do not desire any.   If it doesn't affect you personally,  why can you not just let them get on with it, their way  ?

Lolly's Mate

As you seem to be somewhat old fashioned, I take it you are well versed in what used to be called the 'poor man's contraceptive' ?<br>